こんにちは。本日もブログを読んでいただきありがとうございます。
行動するブログ！こうぶろ！（@forAction_blog）です。
もうすぐ35歳になるので、年齢を意識したのか言葉が降ってきました。
今まで出会えた全ての人、物事に感謝を込めて。
ちょっとでも良かったと思ったり共感したら、いいねやシェアをお願いします。
また、みなさんの場合はどのようなことを伝えるのか、伝えているのかも良かったら教えてほしいです。
個人的には、これを言語化することで学ぶことが多々あったので、ぜひみなさんにもやってみてほしいです。
Followed by English translation
- 「子どもができたら伝えたい10のこと」
- 10 things I want to tell my kids when I have them
- 1, Money is important
- 2, Friends (or personal connections) and credit are more important than money
- 3, Learn how to get along well with stress
- 4, Touch a good stuff
- 5, Experience yourself on anything, anything
- 6, Rely on people, also become a person relying on others
- 7, Basically you do not have to worry about the eyes and opinions of others
- 8, Find the person you believe in, and build relationships and maintain
- 9, Be completely alone, take time to know yourself
- 10, Faithful to familiar people, parents and relatives
「子どもができたら伝えたい10のこと」
1、お金は大事
お金があると大抵のことができる。ただし、お金は目的ではなく手段なので、そこを間違えてはいけない。言語と同じ。英語などの外国語も、それができるようになることが目的ではなく、誰かとコミュニケーションを取ったり、情報を得るための手段に過ぎない。手段が目的になってしまうような間違いをしないこと。
2、お金より友人（人脈）、信用の方が大事
そもそもお金があっても、一人では楽しくない。お金自体が、ほとんど信用を数値化したものに過ぎないので、人脈や信用、知識に投資すればお金は後からついてくる。
3、ストレスとの付き合い方を学べ
世の中のほとんどの病気や不調はストレスに起因する。ただ闇雲に避けることも必要だし大事だが、絶対に避けられないものでもあるし、モチベーションが上がるケースもあるので、自分なりの付き合い方、こなし方を知り（自分を知り）、うまくやっていく方法を学べ。どういう状況になっても落ち着ける場所や逃げ場、会ってくれる人やポジティブな心理状態にしてくれるもの（僕の場合は音楽やバイク）を持っておくこと。
4、良いものに触れろ
世の中で良いとされているもの、人気のあるものにはそれ相応の理由がある。その中で自分がやってみたいこと、経験してみたいことは迷わずやってみること。また、現実との折り合いがつく場合、あまり興味がないものでも、自分のアンテナに引っかかり、誰かに誘われたらやってみること。そこから何かが生まれるかもしれないし、新しいことを知る貴重な機会になる可能性が高い。
5、何事も実際に自分で経験しろ
簡単にいろいろな情報が手に入るようになったが、人から聞いたことと自分が経験したことには100倍ほどの差がある。自分がやってみたいこと、経験したいことを探して見つけ、やってみること。本気で願えば、大抵のことはできる。
6、人を頼り、人に頼られる人になれ
自分一人でできること、知れること、経験できることは少なく、それを考えるとあまりにも人の一生は短い。想像以上に同じようなことを考えている人や仲間はいるので、人を頼ること。そしてそのような気持ち良い仲間に頼られる人になること。
7、他人の目や意見は、基本的に気にしなくてよい
他人は他人。人間の良いところでも悪いところでもあるが、人はすぐに物事を忘れるし、自分のことを見ていて、記憶している人などごく僅かなので、気にする必要はない。何かをやってみるとき、行動してみるとき、発信してみるときに気になっても、それはほとんどの場合、自意識過剰でしかない。
8、この人なら、と思える信用できる人を探して関係を築き、維持しろ
自分が尊敬でき、この人ならと思える人を見つけて、なるべくそういう人の近くにいること。会ってもらう時間を作ること。自分から会いに行き、会ってもらえる人になること。自分で経験してわかることだが、誰にでも浮き沈みやアップダウンはあるので、調子を合わせること。人も友情も愛情も変わるものだし、成長するもの。切れたら嫌な関係は維持するよう努めること。できるだけ直接会うことはやはり重要だ。
9、完全に一人になり、自分を知る時間を取れ
まずは自分を知ることが大事で、知らないと自分が何がしたいのか、何をするべきなのか、どういうことをすると気分が良くなるのか、何が好きなのかなどがわからない。人生のロードマップ、計画を大まかにでも作るためにも、自分と対話する時間を取ること。結局何をするにも最後の決定、判断をするのは自分なので、他人の意見は参考程度に留めること。
10、身近な人、両親や親族を大事にしろ
人生の過程で、人は簡単に身近な人への感謝や愛を忘れてしまう。僕も当然のように両親や親族よりも友人や好きなことに時間やお金を使い、人生の大半をそうしてきた。
僕が君の親なので大事にしろということではなく、ある程度の年齢になると親のありがたみや、親族、親戚の人と話すことが楽しいと思えるときが来る。そのときになってちゃんと感謝できるように、話せるように、会えるようにしておくこと。
I will be 35 years old soon, so the words came down from anywhere, my brain was conscious of it. Thanks to all the people and things I have ever met. If you feel that this article is good or sympathize, please share it with nice. I would like you to tell me what kind of things you tell in your case, and also tell them. Personally, there were many things to learn by languageization like this, so I would like you to try it for all of you.
10 things I want to tell my kids when I have them
1, Money is important
You can do most things if you have money. However, money is not a purpose but a means, so do not make a mistake on that point. As with language, foreign languages such as English are not intended to be able to do it, it is only a means for communicating with someone and getting information. Do not make mistakes as the means aims.
2, Friends (or personal connections) and credit are more important than money
Even if you have money, it is not fun without people around you. As money itself is almost only a digitized value of credit, if you invest in building personal connections, raising credibility and acquiring knowledge money will come later.
3, Learn how to get along well with stress
Most diseases and disorders in life are caused by stress. Although it is necessary to avoid it, it is also absolutely inevitable, there are cases where the motivation is raised by stress, so know the way to get along with your stress and know how to do (know yourself), well Learn how to do it. Keep a place you can calm down in whatever circumstances you are, a place you can escape, a person who will meet you and a thing that will make you in a positive state (in my case, listening to music or riding a motorcycle) .
4, Touch a good stuff
Things that are said to be good in the world, popular ones have reasonable reasons. Do what you want to do and want to experience in that, do not hesitate to try. Also, if realistically possible, even if you are not very interested in you, you will catch on your antenna and try it if you are invited by someone else. Something new possibilities may come from it, and there is a high possibility that it will be a valuable opportunity to know new things.
5, Experience yourself on anything, anything
Thanks to the Internet, you can easily get various kinds of information, but there is about 100 times difference between what you experienced yourself and what you heard from people. Find what you want to do, find what you want to experience, and try it. If you seriously wish, most things can be realized.
6, Rely on people, also become a person relying on others
There are few things that can be done, knowledgeable, and experienced by yourself alone, and the life of human beings is too short. There are people and friends who are considering similar things more than your imagination, so rely on people. And becoming a person to depend on such comfortable companion.
7, Basically you do not have to worry about the eyes and opinions of others
Others are only others. Although it is a good point or a bad point of human beings, people quickly forget things. Look at you in the world, there are only a few people who remember you, so you do not have to worry about it. You become worried when trying something, when you act something, when sending something, it seems in most cases that you are overconscious.
8, Find the person you believe in, and build relationships and maintain
Find a person you can respect, and be as close to them as possible. To make time to meet. To go to see that person from you and to become a person to meet again. It is understood by experiencing yourself, but everyone has ups and downs, so it is necessary to adjust in tune. People, friendship and love change, and grow. If you think that it is painful when it is broken, try to maintain it. It is still important to meet with the person as much as possible.
9, Be completely alone, take time to know yourself
First of all, knowing yourself is important, and if you do not know it, you do not know what you want to do, what you should do, what makes you feel better, what you like.
Take time to talk with yourself, even to roughly make a roadmap or plan of your life.
In the end, it is you who make the final decision or judgment in any situation, so keep the opinion of others to the reference level.
10, Faithful to familiar people, parents and relatives
In the process of life, people easily forget the gratitude or love for familiar people. I also used my time and money for friends and my favorite things than my parents and relatives. Because I am your father, I am not telling you this kind of thing. Strange to say, there will be times when you will have some age you can think of having fun talking to parents and relatives. When that timing comes, make it possible for you to meet them so that you can talk to them so that you can thank them.
Enjoy!!
